I Am Ready For Sacred Connection: How Do I Begin?
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This is a beautiful and deeply courageous question. If you did not witness healthy relationships growing up, and now desire to experience one, you are not broken — you are awakening.
Here’s where you can begin:
1. Witness Without Blame
First, gently acknowledge the relational models you were exposed to. As Book 2: The Frequency of Relationships notes, many of us learned to perform for love — to people-please, self-abandon, or confuse survival with connection. You are not alone in this. The question is not, “Why didn’t I see better?” but “What do I want to choose now?”
What patterns or beliefs about love did you absorb that no longer feel true?
2. Rebuild the Inner Relationship
The foundation for any relationship is the one you have with yourself. This includes:
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Regulating your nervous system (as seen in Neuro-Wealth and Raise Your Vibration) so that safety, not hypervigilance, is your baseline
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Developing inner attunement: Can you recognize your needs, feelings, and desires — without minimizing or overriding them?
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Practicing sovereignty: Can you let your Inner Being, not your past conditioning, guide you in connection?
From The Inner Being Workbook:
“If you feel calm, inspired, and open to possibilities — Inner Being is leading”.
3. Deconstruct & Redefine “Healthy”
Healthy love might not feel familiar — at first. It may feel “boring” compared to chaos. Or too vulnerable to trust. That’s okay. You're learning a new frequency. A “healthy relationship” isn't perfection — it's resonance, repair, and room for truth.
What qualities does your version of healthy love include? How does your body feel when you imagine being met, not managed?
4. Shape-Shift Your Identity
From I Am in Motion:
“Your identity is not a fixed entity — it is a playground. Who do I want to be now?”
You are free to choose: “I am someone who gives and receives love in ways that honor my truth.” Each “I Am” is a portal into the relationship reality you are creating — not repeating.
5. Practice Receiving Without Earning
Relationships Book 2 invites us to stop performing and start receiving — letting love in, not proving ourselves worthy of it.
Can you let someone witness you without shrinking? Can you receive care without debt or guilt?
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